If someone’s told you to “do your Kegels” when you’re pregnant, don’t hit play on that autopilot just yet. Because when it comes to prepping for birth, the story isn’t quite what we’ve all been told.

What’s wrong with “just Kegels”?

“Kegels” are those squeeze-and-lift exercises you do when you’re at a red light, brushing your teeth, or standing in line. They’re great for strengthening the pelvic floor when you need hold-and-lift (like fixing leakage or postpartum support). nhs.uk+1
But - here’s the thing - birthing is not about clenching. It’s about opening, releasing, and allowing. Evidence shows that when your pelvic floor doesn’t relax enough, it may result in a longer pushing phase, more tearing, or more discomfort. PubMed+1

So what should your pelvic floor be doing pre-birth?

• Relaxation + release: Your body needs to know how to let go.

• Balance + strength + flexibility: One without the others is a recipe for tension.

• Movement patterns that mimic birth:

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7 Things To Do For A Smoother Birth!

Labor is one of life’s biggest moments, and preparing for it can feel overwhelming. Knowing what not to do can be just as valuable as knowing what to do. Here are seven things to avoid for a smoother, more manageable birth experience.

1. Don’t Tense Up

When labor gets intense, the body’s instinct is often to tense up. However, this tension can actually slow labor. Focus on relaxing your shoulders and jaw with each contraction, allowing your body to open up and progress naturally.

2. Don’t Stay in One Position

Staying in one position may seem comforting, but movement can help labor progress and your baby get into the optimal position. Small movements like swaying, walking, or using a birthing ball make a big difference.

3. Don’t Focus on the Clock

Watching the clock can make time drag, increasing stress. Labor progresses at its own pace, so focus on each contraction rather than obsessing over timing.

4. Don’t Fight the Contraction...