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The Contraction No One Talks About…

Today’s entry is a good one, because we’re talking about a moment almost every pregnant woman hits — but nobody warns you about:

The first practice contraction that actually makes you stop mid-sentence.

You know the ones I’m talking about…
You’re walking, folding laundry, minding your business — and suddenly your whole belly tightens like a fist.

Not painful.
Not dramatic.
Just… tight.

So here’s the real talk:
That’s a Braxton Hicks contraction — your body’s rehearsal for the big day.

But what most moms don’t know is this:

Braxton Hicks are actually one of your body’s best clues that your uterus is getting stronger.

They’re literally your uterus doing tiny workouts.
Like those baby Peloton classes you didn’t sign up for but apparently still have to attend.

Here’s what they actually mean:

1. Your uterus is building endurance.

Just like your legs would train for a marathon, your uterus is prepping for the marathon of labor.

2. They often show up when you’re tired...

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Why Kegels Might Be Hurting Your Birth — And What To Do Instead

 

If someone’s told you to “do your Kegels” when you’re pregnant, don’t hit play on that autopilot just yet. Because when it comes to prepping for birth, the story isn’t quite what we’ve all been told.

 

What’s wrong with “just Kegels”?

“Kegels” are those squeeze-and-lift exercises you do when you’re at a red light, brushing your teeth, or standing in line. They’re great for strengthening the pelvic floor when you need hold-and-lift (like fixing leakage or postpartum support). nhs.uk+1
But - here’s the thing - birthing is not about clenching. It’s about opening, releasing, and allowing. Evidence shows that when your pelvic floor doesn’t relax enough, it may result in a longer pushing phase, more tearing, or more discomfort. PubMed+1

So what should your pelvic floor be doing pre-birth?

  • Relaxation + release: Your body needs to know how to let go.

  • Balance + strength + flexibility: One without the others is a recipe for tension.

  • Movement patterns that mimic birth:

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40 Weeks Pregnant? Here’s What No One Tells You (But You Need to Know!)

 

by Stephanie Poole, Doula & Lactation Consultant

You made it to 40 weeks pregnant.
The finish line.
The grand finale.
The “everyone keeps texting me asking where the baby is” stage.

So if you’re wondering why you’re still pregnant…
Here’s the truth your provider may not have mentioned:


Your Baby Is NOT Late

Only 4 to 5% of babies are born on their due date.
Because guess what?
Due dates are a prediction, not a promise.

A normal full-term birth can be anywhere from 40+5 to 41+3 for first-time moms.
You are exactly where you should be.


The Secret Work Happening Inside Your Body

Even without contractions, things are happening:
• Baby’s brain + lungs finishing key development
• Cervix softening and thinning
• Hormones prepping your milk supply
• Baby positioning for birth

Your body is working overtime… quietly.


Signs Labor Is Close (Even If It Isn’t Obvious)

• Lightning crotch
• More discharge
• Bathroom marathons
• Period-like cramps
• Lower back pressure
• Sudden ...

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The Two-Minute Hack That Melts Labor Fear On The Spot

 

Pregnancy is a journey filled with anticipation, excitement, and let’s be honest

...moments of fear.

Whether you're 17 weeks pregnant or days away from meeting your baby, the thought of labor can stir up anxiety. But what if I told you there’s a simple, science-backed technique you can practice right now that helps your body shift from panic to peace in just two minutes?

No meditation. No yoga. Just a powerful nervous system reset you can use anytime — especially during labor.

Why Fear Matters in Labor

Fear during labor isn’t just a mental hurdle — it’s a physical one. When you're scared, your body releases adrenaline, which can slow down contractions, tighten your pelvic floor, and make labor more painful and prolonged. But when you feel safe, your body produces oxytocin — the hormone that fuels contractions and helps labor progress smoothly.

That’s why calming your nervous system is one of the most important things you can do to prepare for birth.

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28 Weeks Pregnant What No One Tells You (But You Really Need to Know)

 So, you’ve made it to the third trimester—cue the celebration!  But between “get your sleep now” and “baby’s the size of an eggplant,” are people actually telling you what’s happening in your body (and what to do about it)?

Let’s fix that. Here's what no one talks about—but every pregnant mama should know at 28 weeks.


1. The Real Symptoms to Watch

Normal:

  • Braxton Hicks (aka warm-up contractions)

  • Blurry vision (yep, hormones can affect your eyes!)

  • Leaky boobs (colostrum may start early!)

  • Shortness of breath + insomnia

 Not Normal:

  • Sudden swelling in your face/hands

  • Persistent headaches or blurry vision with floaters

  • Severe pain or bleeding

If you’re unsure, always call your provider. No shame in being cautious!


2. Your Body is Prepping for Birth Now

Here’s the deal: labor isn’t something that magically happens at 40 weeks. Your body is training already—and how you support it now matters.

Try this daily:

  • Light stretching + p

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Swiftie Birth Hacks You NEED to Know! How I’d Help Taylor Swift Have an EASY Birth – 7 Tips You Can Use!

 

Imagine Taylor Swift, one of the biggest stars on the planet, preparing for childbirth. What would her birth plan look like? How would she stay calm and prepared?

Today, we’re taking a fun twist on birth prep by exploring the strategies I'd use to help Taylor Swift have a smooth, empowering birth – and the best part? These tips are perfect for ANY mom-to-be, not just celebrities!

1. Create a Flexible Birth Plan:
A customized birth plan is key, but flexibility is a must. Think about your pain relief options, who you want by your side, and your ideal birth environment, then share these details with your birth team. Having a plan that adapts gives you peace of mind, no matter how labor unfolds.

2. Embrace Natural Pain Management Techniques:
While it may seem like celebs have endless options, some of the best pain relief techniques are simple. Breathing exercises, visualizations, and water therapy are powerful tools that are accessible to all moms-to-be. Practice these in adva...

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